Thursday, December 30, 2010

Vlog and Job

So I decided I might be starting a vblog on youtube pretty soon, so I'll post them on here as well.

Also I am starting my job search, I think Dylan is old enough now (even though he is starting to have stranger anxiety) but I've been told it's normal now at this age. I really need help out financially.

I am tired...

Friday, December 17, 2010

Girly Vagina

I was having a conversation with my cousin about having kids. I mentioned that I would have love to have a little girl in the future if it was in the cards. She went on to say that if I had a girl she wouldn't be a "girly girl". What is that all about? What makes someone a girly girl? Does she have a super vagina? Seriously, please tell me. Apparently if I had a girl she would be a tomboy like me. Um...I was not aware I was a tom boy. Another question, what is a tom boy? I looked it up.

Tom Boy : is a girl who exhibits some characteristics and or behavior considered typical of the gender role of a boy,[1] including the wearing of typically masculine-oriented types of clothes and engaging in games and activities that are often physical in nature, and which are considered in many cultures to be the domain of boys.

Also tom boys are girls who demonstrate a stronger interest in science and technology.

Doesn't really sound like me, not that any of those things are wrong, I know plenty of girls into science, technology, sports, etc.

I don't understand why I am being called a tom boy? Is it because I refuse to wear make up (I just don't like it on my face) or high heels (I am clumsy in those things!)I wear dresses, only dresses, I feel so comfortable in them. I hate pants, I feel uncomfortable in them. I am such a purse person. And did I not mention, I gave BIRTH (technically a C section, but a human being came out of me!). Isn't that the most feminine thing a woman can do??

And who is to say my future daughter (maybe) will be a "tom boy". Who the hell knows what kind of person she would be.

I think what I am really trying to say is...A VAGINA IS A VAGINA. There isn't such a thing called a girly vagina. And if there is, I want to see.