Today my future husband and I had a major argument over the changing of my last name. I love my last name, it's my name. I understand his reasons to want me to change my last name to his, but when I say it out loud. It's weird for me. I think I am afraid of losing my identity with the name change. I actually do like his last name, but Salazar is all I know. He also told me that changing my last name will show him I love him, I then went on to say isn't a baby enough? Ha Ha I was trying to give him a hard time. I know he means well,he suggested a compromise, by hyphenating. I am still not sure. What would you do?
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Well, I don't having any plans to change my name when I get married. I've already discussed it with my future husband - and he really doesn't care either way - it's my choice. So, just remember, it's your choice to do what you want to do when you get married - but also remember that changing your name is a huge hassle - my sister had to jump over some hurdles during the process of changing hers.
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